Hey i'm Melissa i'm 14 me and my friends and my so-called friends have been through everything together soo if you have a problem we've probably had it to, so dont worry im here with advice and i'm pretty sure i can help you with any problems you have.. wanna i-m me and ask me on aim go ahead:: Brunete x Hottie or NevaHadSum1LikeU x-0 Melis*
Hey Checkout my myspace www.Myspace.com/im_a_Hottie kthnxbye!
E-mail: Melissag523@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Holtsville Long Island New York !
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: NevaHadSum1LikeU
Member Since: November 7, 2005
Answers: 24
Last Update: October 10, 2006
Visitors: 4124
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Work/School Relationships
View All
Favorite Columnists
TheTeenGirl
hOllisterxbarbie
|
| |
My boyfriend and I've been going out for three years now. When we met (16 at the time), I told him that if he wanted to become more than a friend to me then there are certain things he needed to know. I've told him I've been clinically depressed since I was eleven years old and that I'm self destructive and he understood. Instead of disregarding me, we fell in love.. The problem is, he breaks up with me when I'm at the point where my depression becomes unhandling.. basically, at times when I need him most. However, he always ends up coming back to me. This has happened at least twice since we've been together.
I'm 19 now and I've just started college. Ever since college has begun, I've been becoming more or more sad with my life. Everythings been so stressful, living away from home, being in a new environment, the college work load.. etc. Two nights ago I told my boyfriend that lately I've been crying a lot and that my depression is getting worse. Well, last night, out of no where, he breaks up with me over the phone. Two hours later, he wants me back.
I feel as if he doesnt want to be with me because he doesnt want to deal with my depression.. Thing is, I dont burden him with anything, I just go to him to talk about what's bothering me. It's like, he can't handle it and he gives up on me.. I know he really loves me though and I would never doubt his love for me.. it's just that I don't like being thrown away and then taken back. I dont like when people take me for granted. I need advice on what to do, because I really do love him and want to be with him. But I just cant keep having this happen to me.. him breaking up with me especially over something I can't help: my depression.
Thanks in advance.
Sorry for the length.
(link)
|
Listen i think you need to talk to him about why hes always breaking up with you. Maybe it's not what you think it's for. If he broke up with you because of your depression he wouldnt take you back.. soo it's obviously probably not that. he obviously loves you, but i think your both lacking the talking part of your relationship.. i hope everything works out.. Good Luck
x0o Melis*
|
|