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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.
Question is: how should I go about handling this?
Should I bring it up to HIM first?
Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?
Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?
I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
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You need the help of adults here. They (parents) should be the ones to handle this not you. Tell them you screwed up and dated a complete liar who not only is 24-years-old but married to someone who does not know.
Yes, he WILL and should be charged for dating a minor let alone having sex which is deemed as statutory rape. There is something wrong with a person who sleeps with someone regarded as a child one age difference from 18 or not. You got taken advantage of by him for his own gain.
Let your parents tell him he is not welcomed around you and if he so much as tries to start a relationship again they will go after him. He's a deeply troubled and screwed up man. Your parents are the ones who should tell him to stay the hell away from you or deal with the police.
As far as yourself have no contact with him, his wife etc. That's their problem and not yours to sort out or be involved in. Best of luck here. Do be sure to get adults to solve this one.
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Thank you sooo much for your response!! I really apreciate it, and I will definitely think about your contribution!! :)
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