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heyhey, well this is where i tell you bout myself im guessing, well im 16, i live in norwood ma, i go to a technical school. my screenname is chiquitablaze420. and i have a myspace website and an xanga, thats it. the rest are fakers! alrighty well ask away kids, im here to help you the best i can :) peacee

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14/female
ok like i reallly hate my life. But i live in a semi good neighborhood with a good famliy (mom, dad and sister) in a good house and everything but like nothing ever goes my way. Like i dont think im that pretty.. im 14 and only had 1 boyfriend (which only lasted 2 weeks ) and all my other friends have had manyy boyfriends and like all my friends that are girls are prettier than me in my opinion. and i dont really have a bestfriend. i used to but now someone else is her bestfriend. So now i just have like friends, but only like 4 really close friends. I'm naturally a very nice person.. but you know what they say: nice people finish last. Also, im a bit of a pushover. People sometimes just "walk all over me" and i cant really stand up for myself. I am very self-conscious about myself and im not that confident.
But then i think about the poor people or homeless people who probably have 20 times worse life than me and it makes me feel bad that i complain about my life when i should be thankful. So my question.. do you think my life is good or bad? is there anything i can do to improve my life? or should i be thankful instead?

i personally think you sound like one of the sweetest people ).And because of you being such a naturally awesome person it may seem like your life is really horrible right now because you feel like you have nothing. I know that dosent make any sense now but years from now you will see. but I was in your place at one point. First off you dont need to be pretty to get a boyfriend. If the boy is worth it then he will look at you as beautiful no matter what you you look like. Looks arent everything either. When people are as sweet as you they seem to be taken for granted. I always felt like that growing up. I would always let people walk all over me. It sometimes still happens. But you can still be a nice person to people but if it seems like they are walking all over you then dont bother with them, and when I say that I mean dont tell them off but just dont stick close with them, you dont need that. Its not a good feeling knowing your being taken advantaged of. As you get older you learn to take charge of that though. And it builds your pride, along with that you get a positive outlook on life. And things will seem alot better. You just gotta wait it out, growing up takes time. And always remember that things will always be okay in the end. It may not seem like it now but its the truth. Well, If you feel like that helped at all and you need to talk to someone I'm here girl!
Have a goodnight hun.

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(Rating: 5) aww you are so sweet !! thanks for your help ! i really appreciate it !
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