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Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...

Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething

I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..

Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me


Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!

I've been close to where you're feeling, so I'm definitely going to try to help. It's good that you want to see her happy, even if it isn't with you. That's important, because, no matter how sure you are that you could make her happy, she might not be. If she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend who treats her terribly, all you can do is be there to support her. Waiting for over a year is extremely unfair to you, and she really is lucky to have somebody who is willing to do that. Hopefully, she'll come around eventually. Just keep in mind that most teenage relationships end relatively fast and you should have your chance soon enough. If it goes on for much longer, I'm sorry to say, but you should either let her know how unbearable it is for you, or try to get over her. Maybe tell her this is her last chance. You're tired of waiting (It's kind of harsh, but it might work). None of this is fair to you, but I do understand how much you care about her. Give it some more time and good luck. You deserve her. It isn't your fault that you aren't together. Here's hoping things work out for you eventually.

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(Rating: 5) thanx i think i deserve her too and shes afraid of the fact that if she goes with me in this teenage life...it will be short...i dont want it to be short and she doesnt want to hurt me...but i told her it wouldnt hurt me not matter what she done even killed me...i would still love her
but thx for the help and nice to meet you!!
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