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I'm really confused about a lot of things. I think that I may be bisexual, but I'm not really sure how to tell. I wonder if telling myself I am is what's making me that way. I've never done anything with someone of the same sex, but I've talked to people about bisexuality and I think about it a lot. How do you know you're bisexual? I know it's probably different for different people, and please don't say "you just know". Thanks in advance, any serious answers will be helpful.

Look, I'm bi as well. I haven't done anything with anyone of the same sex either but, for a while, I was curious as to what it might be like. And then I started being really confused, because I knew that I wasn't a lesbian, I liked guys. Progressively, I accepted the fact that I might be attracted to girls too. Deep down, I think everyone has thought about bisexuality once in their lives. Everyone is attracted to both sexes, just on a different level. In the end, it's not about one gender or the other, it's who you like, and guy or girl is fine. Just think about how it might affect you in the long term and then you'll just figure it out.
Hope this helped a bit. It can get confusing.

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