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Q: I really need someones opinion cos i cant figure this out. me and my guyfriend talk more everyday and now we're pretty close and i know i like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he likes me that way. He makes fun of me a lot and says hes kidding when i get annoyed. and he doesnt make fun of other girls that hes friends with. and he stares at me ALL THE TIME. what should i do? It seems like he likes me sometimes but i dont want to do anything that would ruin our friendship especially if he doesn't really like me.
thanx soo muchh
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You need to make a choice here. You can either do your best to get over him and keep him as a friend, or you could ask him whether he likes you. It may/may not ruin your friendship. You can never tell with these things. But if he's a true friend he won't let that make things awkward between you. These things happen all the time- friends fall for each other and sometimes they don't realize that they both liked each other until it's too late. Don't miss your chance.
If you do decide to go for it, to make sure, you could joke around with him and say "everyone keeps asking if we're a couple, how funny is that?!" and see how he responds. Alternatively, you get a third party to suss him out. Are you friendly with any of his guy friends? If you can trust them enough, tell them how you feel about the guy and ask them for advice. Other people seem to be able to pick up on these things really easily. Often they see things we don't, because they see them in a neutral light.
Good luck. ^_~
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Gender: Female Location: Melbourne, Australia Occupation: Student Age: 18 MSN: a_red_hot_oasis_day@hotmail.com Member Since: February 5, 2005 Answers: 188 Last Update: July 28, 2006 Visitors: 20375
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