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hey everyone! my name is ali. im 14 years old! i love to give advice! so please ask! well..i really dont know what else to write! ask away!

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19/f

I met someone who was only in my hometown for a week, and we kissed, talked, and really connected. I seriously fell for him.

Of course, some people will think we were only together as rebounds, because he lost a friend and I was getting out of a serious relationship with someone. Regardless, he made me feel happy and alive.

I gave him my email address and phone number, he gave me his favorite hat. It's been over a week, and I have not heard from him. Should I just forget him, or make an effort to contact him?

I've been searching for a phone number/email but my search so far has come up fruitless. I don't know what to do. He's in the military and I would just love to talk to him before he has to go to Iraq again. However, I don't want to completely freak him out and seem "stalkerish." So even if I found a number, I don't know if I'd have the guts to call it.

It worries me that he hasn't tried contacting me yet. Maybe he thinks that since I was going through a lot that he should just back off. Maybe he felt nothing for me and really is a jerk. I don't know. Should I be patient, or make a move?

I am trying to forget about him and trying not to make the relationship anymore than what it was. It's hard because I keep thinking about him. I just need to tell him thanks (the reason is very personal and complicated so I don't want to go into detail.) Maybe if I could just tell him that, then I could move on. But for now, I feel like I have something I seriously need to get off my chest and it's driving me insane not being about to explain things!!

guys just dont call the girls. its not just him, but almosy all guys! call him first. maybe he just want you to call him first. he might want to see if youre acually into him! so call him. talk. and he'll probably start calling you! hope i helped!

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(Rating: 5) Haha, too true. I will try to call him... if I can find a number!
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