well im 18, in love with Steve Mark Jones (if you cant tell) we are living together two months now and celebrate our 4 month anniversary today! (Jan 13)
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ok, im 13 years old and i have had this boyfriend for about 7 months now. he is having majior family problems and doesnt know how to deal with them anymore. he is one of those people who keep things bottled up inside of him. i told him he could always talk to me about it but i dont think he is comfortable talking to anyone about it. well, he is getting like really depressed and he told me he doesnt know if he can handle it all anymore. he is thinking about running away or killing himself. i told him not to and i pleaed for him not to but i dont think it is getting through to him. he told me that the last thing he wanted to do was hurt me but he is REALLY anrgy. i dont know what to say or what to do. he told me if he does anything he'll come to school and say good bye to me and stuff. PLEASE PLEASE help me! im so scared!
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ok calm down. you need to keep the level head of the two of you. It is good that you want to help your boyfreind out. my fiance had many of hte same problems, depression, bipolar, even a few suicidal thoughts. he bottled everything up inside him too until it exploded. (my dad does the same thing). all you can do is support him. talk him into going to therapy. tell him that if he doesnt want to hurt you, then dont hurt himself. because him hurting himself hurts you. just reassure him that you are there for him. maybe you ned to force him to talk no matter how uncomphortable he is with it. He needs to let it out in some way shape or form. he needs to know that you deeply care about him. he needs your support. My fiance got into therapy and is on meds now to regulate his moods and help him out. he is doing much better. might i suggest the same thing to you. you just have to let him feel how much you care about him. you can tell him you care until your blue in teh face, but it wont do any good unless you SHOW him. he needsto see that you care about him enough to go out on a limp for him. if it gets really really bad maybe talk to his mom or dad, or your mom and dad and have htem talk to his. but i cant really tell you much else. if you want anything else...you can email me at StageAddict05@hotmail.com i am online right now and i will help you to hte best of my abilities. but hte biggest thing i can tell you is to stay calm ok? email me if you need anything, ok. i am on right now if you just need some one to talk to. granted it is through email, but it is better than nothing. i have nothing but support for you, seeing as i have goen through it myself. i am glad you came to me, and i hope i can help you out.
Juelz
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thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooo much. i seriously needed some help!
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