ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months, but we've been close friends for about a year. when we first got together, everything was great.. we were so happy together!!! but then over the summer i went on a family vacation for alomost a month (i kept in touch with him as much as i could while i was gone, but i was overseas and it was hard) and when i got back (on his birthday! wouldnt think that was a good present? lol) he acted like he didnt care about me anymore. and it gets worse.. im a senior and he graduated last year, and he works two jobs, so it makes it hard to see him. when hes not working he "forgets" to call me and goes fishing or some other manly thing with his friends. now, i dont have a problem with his friends, but for some reason, his friends dont like me. whenever my boyfriend is with them, he acts like he doesnt like me either. for example, the other night he called me when i got off of work, and then in the middle of my sentence i could hear his friends come over and hes goes "look b!+
Aww Im sorry. This is the hard truth: When a guy calls you a B---- then it is over. His friends are influencing him a lot. What would your parents think if they knew you wanted to be with someone that called you that? or ditches you, or ignores you, or doesnt make time to spend with you? Guys dont like breaking up with girls...so they act like cruddy boyfriends. Let him go. and find someone that will throw you a party on his B-day just b/c you got back, or someone who will tell his friends to back off if they are saying stuff about you, or will take a sick day to spend extra time with you. Your boyfriend kind of stinks.
Hope it Helps abd Good Luck!
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i think you were the most helpful of all my answers!!!!
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