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Okay...I have this friend. She has been my friend for about 3 or 4 years but we have come really really close. Now we are Freshmen in high school and never see each other. I see her around the hall and stuff and i can tell how much she it starting to change. She dyed her hair pink, she is always wearing black, and she is hanging out with a whole differnt crowd of people like the punks and goths and stuff. Dont get me wrong i have a lot of friends that are punks and goths and i have NOTHING agenst them but that is just not her type at all. Ever sence she is changing like this i never talk to her...i want to cause i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore...but if i talk to her i dont really kno what to say...i need help...
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I totally understand where you're coming from. That's happened to me with a good friend of mine. I started talking to her again like how you wanted to and i found out that she was totally not the same person. Not only the outward appearance was different, but also her personality and character. I also found out that we had nothing to talk about so that made it harder. We still say hi in the hallways but that's about it. I'm sorry, but there's probably not much you can do. Be a good friend but don't expect her to be all buddy buddy with ya. It hurts, I know because you lose a friend. Everything will work out though. Hope i helped ya!!!
4Him, Disciple
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