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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1. (link)
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I am Catholic. Pre-martial sex in my religion is looked at as wrong until married. But I have had sex before, with one person only and that's my boyfriend whom I know I am spending the rest of my life with. I don't see a problem with having sex if your ready for it and you love the person your with. If you think that you two are meant to be and aren't married yet then I don't see a problem. Sex is a part of a relationship, its not everything, but it fits right in there, and I think before you get married you should explore things with your partner and make sure your 100% sure you want to be with them. Now, I am not saying test the sex and then decide if they are good enough. Sex shouldn't determine if you love someone, it should let you know afterwards how strong your feeling progress for them. As for me, after sex with my boyfriend I feel so much closer to him because we already have a special bond now, that when we have sex it grows even more. So I respect people who have at least found someone they love to share such an intimate moment with.
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I understand how you feel. Unfortunately it took a few tries to figure out exactly what I wanted sex to be in my life.
I dont completely agree with the testing thing. I dont think you neccesarily have to have sex with someone to know,but sexual compatibility IS very important in a relationship.
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