about

Hey ask me for advice any time!! Im good at giving style advice!! :) :) But i also know many other things as well! Drop a question in my inbox ANY time and i'll give you an answer almost right away!!

advice

ok so i've been going out with this guy john for about 2-3 weeks now..and i really love him...but he's my bffs ex boyfriend...and shes really mad at me for going out with him..she gives me shit about it all the time like everyday at school...and like i told her how happy he makes me and how much i like him and stuff and she still like is weird and she talks about me behind my back to my other bffs(also hers too) i really want her to stop being mad at me b/c i dont want this to distroy our friendship (we've been friends like when we were born and on from there) she wont just except the fact that like her likes me and i like him now..AND SHE DUMPED HIM TOO thats makes me like really mad too...like she says she still likes him but shes the one who dumped him... what should i do...o and she said the only thing that would make her happy would be if i dumped him but if i dump him i'll be missrible for like a really really long time and she doesnt get it...

what should i do?? 13/f

sorry this is soo long...i rate all fives if u atleast try to help me!!!!!

im sorry hunny :'( this is a hard situation..hmm...well..think..how much do you LOVE him..yet..how much do you like her as a friend? you shouldnt dump him just because that.She made a mistake thats her gay problem.You know what i would do? i would stay with him,keep your other friends,talk to her about it and say "i know you dont want me to be with him..but please relize that i love you as a friend and letting our friend ship die would make me soo sad""we've had so many good times and i dont want to loose you as a friend" dont brag about how much you love him though,then she'll just get annoyed.I bet she likes you,its just thats she doesnt like you being with him.because it was her mistake.And if she still is mad at you,i'd say..get in the "popular group" or a famous group of people and have fun with them.I would have fun with them and not think about her for a while.Maybe if it doesnt work out w/ you and john then just tell her and make up.I know its hard to talk to someone about it..to tell you the truth when someone tells me to "talk about it" i never do xD ...but i really suggest doing it..maybe over phone/internet/notes.

[view]

(Rating: 5) thankx..this helped alot...not to sound like blah but im already in the "popular group"
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker