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Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl.

Well I have my first boyfriend now but that's not what this is about. Well you see my friend is feeling left out because both me and our other friend now have boyfriends and she doesn't. She has liked this same boy for three years now but nothing is happening between them. He hardly even looks at her anymore. She doesn't want to give up on him because she knows she won't like any other guy. I keep telling her to go up and talk to him but she is the shy "wait for him to come to me" kind of girl. I feel bad for her but I don't want to break up with my boyfirned just because she is feeling left out. She has met and gets along really well with both my boyfriend and our other friend's boyfriend but she never wants to go anywhere with any of us. I would never put my boyfriend above my friends and my boyfriend understands that. We ask her to come to football games or movies with us all the time but she thinks she'd be getting in the way. What should I do?

You should have a girls night out more often like at least once a week or something that way she won't feel left out. Also the three of you could have a talk about the boy she likes and how they can become more then friends. I hope that I helped but if not please visit me at my column.

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(Rating: 3) I understand where you are coming from. The thing is that she just found out that the boy she has liked all these years has a girlfriend. And I can't have girls' nights out that often since I am usually busy with so many family things or other activities that I can really only have girls' nights out once a month.
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