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Q: Alright, I dated this guy for about 2 months. And we just broke up about I guess 2 weeks ago? Well before we broke up, things were going great. A few nights before we went to a football game and he was telling me how much he cared about me and how happy it made him that he could hold me and junk like that (Corny I know). Well a few days later he talks to my brother and tells him he has to break up with me. I was devasted to say the least. So I called him. He told me what had happened... that he just had too much going on in his life right now and couldn't handle a relationship. We rarely were able to see each other and the only way we could talk was after he got off work at like 11:30 at night. And sometimes he was so tired that the conversations weren't that long. So I understand why he did it. He kept telling me on the phone he still loved me and he cared about me and that he hoped it wouldn't be a permanent thing, ya know? And I told him that it was fine and that I understood. Well now things are weird. I see him every other day or so whenever my brother wants to go and see him at his work. And I can handle seeing him just fine. But we don't really talk. He'll say a few words to me and stuff like that, but that's about it. He'll joke and crap. One time when I went up there, he hugged my brother really short and then hugged me and I thought he wasn't going to let go. Anyway, he claims he cares about me so much and that he wants us to get back together eventually, but he never even calls. Even when he's off work... and I'm just confused. I'm trying to figure out if he still feels anything for me and why he doesn't even call. If any of you could help me I'd be more than glad to rate... I'll rate high too!!
Thanks so much for reading this.
xoxo
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Sometimes when you really have feelings for someone it gets hard to see the whole picture. I'd like to help you with that.
A lot of guys get into relationships and get bored for whatever reason but still care about the person they have a relationship with. This technique of saying "It just can't work right now" is a way of them letting you down easy. Believe me, if a guy wants to be with you, he'll change his schedule and make time for you. That fact that he's not calling shows that he just doesn't want the relationship anymore.
If you ever get a chance to talk to him, I would suggest asking him just to be sincere and say you'll understand. If he really is feeling that way, at least an openness may allow for a friendship in the future. Good luck girlie. :)
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Thanks a lot. I appreciate it. The situation is difficult. His parents aren't the best people around... he still lives with them... I'd explain more but I don't know how much I can type. lol
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Ask me anything, and I'll tell all. If you have a question, I've got an answer. Enjoy!
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Gender: Female Location: PA Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: September 12, 2005 Answers: 142 Last Update: September 12, 2006 Visitors: 10355
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