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Hey all! I'm 15, almost 16 *August 5th* and I go to Utica High School. It's a decent school, but living in Michigan is a downer seeing as we have the most sporadict weather ever. But, I still love it. I wouldn't move if I had the chance. =) Anywho, I love Forensics, It's my biggest hobby I probably have. And no, it isn't CSI or any of that stuff, it's Competitive Speech, but not like debate. I do the drama portion of it. Haha. I also love to sing. It's my dream to grow up and sing for a band for be solo, far fetched, but I can dream dammit! I like anybody who can make me laugh, and hate people who are 'stuck up' and 'serious' all the time. People need to learn to let loose, you know? I'm also a Christian, because God is effin' cool. He's cooler than you, remember that. Also, highschoolers really need to remember : "Save yourself for the one God saved for you." There are so many sluts in my school, it isn't even funny. Rather sad if you ask me. Other than that, I'm a pretty normal teen.

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Ok, my girlfriend is on the Flagline at her school, so she has to be at all of the games on friday. I usually see her on fridays and saturdays. I'm a guy, and she's the first girl I've ever been, lets say, sexually involved with. And friday's I want to do 'stuff' (stuff being seuxal activities) but she says she's too tired. I know she likes to do it, because every time we do, I please her (and I know this for a fact)I guess I just don't understand how you can be too 'tired'. I could work all day and still have more than enough energy to do 'stuff'. Sometimes we do 'stuff' saturdays, but it makes me mad when she's too tired. I just get frustrated and feel like she doesn't love me. I don't understand why I get mad, it seems like a perfectly good excuse. Please help me understand this. Thank you.

Uh, there are a few problems here buddy.

1) You are in no way shape or form her owner. If she's tired, she's tired. I find it odd that you can ONLY see her those two days. It isn't fair for you to angry with her when she's tired. She might think that YOUR don't love HER because you "always" get mad at her when she doesn't want to have sex with you. The way you're going about it, getting pissed when she won't go down on you, she might think that all you want from the relationship is sex. And judging by this post, I'd have to say the same thing. All you've mentioned about her was : "Oh, we have sex and she won't have sex with me because she's tired and it pisses me off!" You've never once stated. "I love my girlfriend, and I really miss her and want to see her."

Typical boy, all you want is sex.

Now.
Here is what you do.
Go to your girlfriend, tell her you love her (if you do) and say you're sorry for getting angry. DON'T PRESSURE HER to have sex with you. That's VERY bad.

I smell a 1.

Megan


< I never said you pressured her, I said that's how it sounds. >

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(Rating: 4) How do you find it odd? I'm starting college soon and she's still in high school, and her parents don't let her have visitors on school nights. I don't get angry with her, I'm angry at myself because I know I shouldn't feel that way. And how did you come up with me pressuring her? I never once have pressured her in any way, shape, or form.
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