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hey there's this guy that's new and he goes to my middle school now. he's really cute and nice and funny and talented, and i really like him. a lot of other people in my grade like him too, but i've never talked to him before because i have no classes with him, and during lunch he usually goes to a club. i want to get to know him more, and i want to be able to talk to him. my x wanted to know who i liked, and i told him, and he said he would hook me up with him for me, but i told him not to. the next day my x told me he asked the guy that i like if he likes me, and he said no. i was really sad about that. is there anything i can do so that he'll start to like me? and is there anything i can say to him if i ever have the chance to see him? im really shy, and i'm not so good at talking to people that i like and i've never even talked to before.
please help!!!!! i rate high for good answers!!

Well that was wrong of your X! Anyway, don't be upset that the kid doesn't like you. He may feel like he just doesn't know you enough. Maybe join a club that this kid's in... and you'll have time to talk then with no one's interuptions. In a club or something, you can just say hi to him one day or crack a joke or something. And as for your X, ask him nicely to stay out of your business, and whatever you do, don't keep telling him important stuff about you! He seems kinda annoying and hes not really good for you to be talking to anyway! Good Luck with this other kid.... just know he might be difficult to get especially with all these other girls that are into him. Really cute guys KNOW when their cute...... meaning it goes right to their head ;-D.

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