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Heyyy!!!! What's up everyone. I'M BACK!!! my name is Catherine. I am 15 years old. I may be a minor you will be surprised of what I know, especially things I haven't been trough. Just leave anything you want to talk about in my inbox.advice
All right, I need help... I went out with this guy for 3 months... But we were friends 2 months before we started going out... He had a crush on me, and I ended up liking him and we went out (like I said) so our relationship was more like 5 months it's just, for the first 2 months we didn't do anything, and everything was going great, or, so I thought... He broke up with me ON our 3 month anniversary, and yesterday WOULD HAVE been our 6 month anniversary and, it made me really sad... The thing is, is that he verbally abused me... He would say something and I wouldn't understand how he meant it, so I'd get upset, and he would call me stupid and tell me it was all my fault. After he broke up with me he got drunk and messed around with this that liked him, but, he didn't really like her because, he never talks to her anymore... Well, we still talked after he made out with that girl but, about a month ago we got into quite a few arguments and he told me I am not worth it, I can't handle anything, I don't deserve him talking to me, and a lot of other things that really hurt. He's friends, that I am also friends with, tell me he doesn't care about me AT ALL... But yet I still care about him, and everything that happened still REALLY hurts... Oh, and now he likes the school slut and thinks she is "amazingly hot" and wants to do stuff with her... But, my question is, why? Why does it still hurt when I know he is a really mean person, and it's been 3 months since we broke up, so why can't I shake this? Please help... (Yes, I will rate high for serious and helpful answers. Thanks in advance and, sorry for making this so long.)
It hurts because he was your friend for two months, and I know its shocking but let me tell you something you really do deserve better than that fucking ass basterd. If I were you I would be hurt to but I would be happy to not having any man that I thought loved me be abusin' me like that. Sooner or later he will be crying back to you and ya know what I think you should do show him the door.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, really. Unfortunitly, he already likes that other girl, but you're advice still helped a lot. Thank you.