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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(. (link)
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i can deffinetly see you and your brother's point of view. i've been in your situation before. except, i did worse with my boyfriend at the time and i was 2 years younger. And i know that it seriously sucks ! but sence your brother won't talk to you, try talking to your parents. tell them that you were only making out when most people your age do way worse. but in the mean time, call him and hang out with him w/o your parents or your brother finding out. yeah, you'll feel really guilty but it's better than a broken heart. and you have to look at the situation through your brother's point of view, he's really protective of you because he doesn't want something bad to happen to you. he's worried about you. To apologize to him, i would write him a note or soemthing explaining that you know why he did that and tell him that you really love him. Even better, if he finally lets him talk to you tell him that to his face.
- Hope I helped.
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