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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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i think you have a point there. i am 13/f and my last boyfriend, i said i loved him, but when i think back on it, it wasn't really love, it was more a crush then love. but i did have this one boyfriend where i loved him ( i know thats not what you want to hear but im sorry) he felt the same. yes we did break up. it just wans't working bc we did not really see each other alot and we kinda lost intrest so we broke up. i think you "can" be in "love" and still break up. i totally agree love should last a "lifetime" but sometimes in a relationship, something goes wrong and they grow apart, sometimes it just happens. im not disagreeing with you bc i think you are right, but at the same time, you know?
you have a really good point there. some teens dont even know what love is.
good point..
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Ok, thanks a lot. I have been thinking. There CAN be exceptions to relationships that don't work out. Anyway, who am I to tell you that you arn't in love? Maybe you both were in love. I'm glad that you answered my question because now I pretty much have everyone's point of view. You were the only one who is 13, though were in love, and felt love. Thank you very much!
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