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OKay I know there's a lot of questions like these, but I really need your absolute HONEST opinion about what I should do.

Me & this kid named Joshua met in May, and we've been very close since, we started dating the day we met because we had a lot in common, and we straight off the bat liked each other. We dated for about two months, until he broke up with me because he had feelings towards another girl. Which I was okay with, because I knew he'd come to me, our relationship was just too strong to be friends. We dated, again - I took him back because I just really liked him (not loved.)

In about July I started having extreme feelings for Joshua, he made me so happy, I thought maybe I was falling in love? I was really unsure, so we were still dating, & he broke up with me again, and he didn't tell me why. Then we dated AGAIN & I broke up with him because I thought I felt feelings towards my best guy friend. Now we're just pretty good friends, we talk a lot, & I just found out that while we were dating, he was telling his best girl - friend that he loved her, and calling her baby. That makes me extremely mad, because he's hurt me so much & I've never done anything like this to him before.

My question is: Should I still remain friends with him?? I don't think I'd ever be able to date him again. But he hurt me so many times in the past, I'm just unsure. If you were in my situation would you be friends with him, or would you never talk to him, again?

Thanks =)
I'll rate you a five just for answering my question. Sorry it's forever and a day long. (link)
To tell you the truth, I would never talk to him again (but that'd be mean, and that'd explain the large number of people who dislike me). That is SUCH an evil thing for him to do, and he sounds like a totally incostistant, backstabbing jerk! Of course, it's always better to have him as a friend rather than an enemy. I think that you should just not hang out with him at all anymore and just become friendly acquaintences, but not friends.


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Thanks so much, ♥ *amyrichardson




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