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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks!
All that is is the tables turning for the girls who use to be called "fast" 10 years ago. Now they have taken some power back and made it cool to be called a slut or whore.
Who knew?
Well, there isn't much you can but follow the beat of your own drum. Kids set the tone of the morality of the school - not teachers etc. They can try - but at the end of the day, it will have to be a group of influential kids who make it "uncool" again to be called a whore.
Just chill and stand your ground. Look at them like they are bananas when they say something like that. I mean honestly, I don't care what they say - there has never been anything good about being a whore. They know it. You know it. And I know it.
Good luck duck!
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(Rating: 1) You missed the point... they aren't called "fast" or "whore", there is no power here, they ARE whores. They have sex for food and booze. Where is the power in being a man's slave for a beer?