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Hey,
ok i'll get to the point. I didnt even know i had a sister until i was 9.. actually know one in my family knew i had a sister, and my sister didnt even know I existed.. See she's my half sister, my dad had sex with his old girlfriend when he got outta college, but he didnt even know she was pregnant. So when i was 9 i met her for the first time, and then she left, because she thought when she first met me and my, err, OUR dad she thought it would be JUST us, but our WHOLE family was there, could you blame them? someone new was entering our disfunctional family. So after an hour or so, when we all went shopping, she left with her boyfriend, she didnt leave a note or anything... she ran away. So i was sad, then i talked to her online, and she said she was mad at my dad for trying to force her to go to College, but she had a fine job. But now she never calls because she thinks my dad will answer the phone, and she talks to my aunt, but she never gets online, and she never talks to me-- ever! I know it's sorta like loving a stranger, but I still love her, but how could she love me? i'm pretty much a stranger, i was alive 9 years and she didnt even know that i was alive-- much more her sister. And the last time i saw her was 2 years ago and she didnt even talk to me really.. a little "hi" every once in a while then, but other than that, she didnt do anything or say anything to me. I know she dosent love me, or my dad, what do i do? i love her so much, how do i get her to love me back and visit and stuff? it's been YEARS! i'll rate high! (link)
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well i dont have much expierience with this but ill try to help,
some people just don't adjust to change and in this case i think that shes so mad at you dad she's so wrapped in it that she can't see there are people in your family that love her and want her there
good luck
striperella
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