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My friend just apologized for blowing up at me and getting really pissed off. She said it was totally her fault and i forgave her right away because i wanted her back as a friend. Things went okay until my sexuality was brought up. She acted okay about it and said whatever i decided was okay but she wouldn't support it. Now whenever i talk to her she barely says anything and it really hurts. I thought she had forgiven me but it's almost like she said all that just to get it off her chest. She even said that this next school year she planned on making no enemies so i guess i was first on the list for her to apologize. I dont know what to do. She's really confusing me and i feel like i'm just annoying her. What's happening?!?!? (link)
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You know what.. if I were you I'd totally leave it alone. I mean shes not even worth being your friend if she cant accept your sexuality. I'm not saying start a cat-fight or bitch at her or ignore her or anything. Just stay civil with her but at the same time just leave it alone for now. If she doesnt take the initiative to talk to you.. she's not even worth it and theres a whole bunch of other people who will accept you. Those are the friends that should mean something.
And dont worry.. your sexuality isnt weird so your friend has to get over herself. Most of my friends are bisexual or have girlfriends or something like that. I still accept them. (even though im totally straight)
but yeah.. my point is there is still a lot of people out there who wont turn you down or turn away from you. Just look for them. Get to know people and whoever accepts you even after they know are the only ones that matter.
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