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about 3or4 days ago i started dating one of my best guy friends. we sort of had some sort of crush/flirt thing going on for a while. but starting an actual relationship with him never crossed my mind. until my cousin (who i recently found out was friends with him) started talking to him about "asking me out" and when he was going to and all that jazz. so when we hung out again. he asked me. it hasnt hit me until now that.. i dont want a relationship. but hurting him would be the last thing on my mind. hes been hurt before.. and is pretty sensative. so i dont know what to do. i know i should give it a chance.. but i dont want to wait to long. and start lying to myself about when im feeling. i dont know what im feeling.
anyone andive on what i could do? (link)
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If you honestly don't want a relationship, I would end it as soon as possible. Leading someone on always hurts more because you're giving them false hope for something that could never happen.
I would just tell him that you're afraid of having a relationship with him because his friendship means so much to you & you wouldn't want to do anything to ruin it.
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