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Saw a waitress (shes 21, im 25) at local pub, big crush, five months later I'm pretty sure she likes me, never talked to her but she stole glances (as did i) so I asked her out for coffee, she said yes. I phone her the next week, she is ill, phone again a couple of times to hear how she is doing. The next sunday I phone her again, no awnser, 5 minutes later she sms me back that she has a boyfriend "but we can still have coffee". I sms back that she should just give me some time, decide to get over it.
Next time I'm at the pub she comes and chats with me (sitting next to me), and the next time, and the next. The more we talk the more I love her. She even tells me when shes working (I didn't ask). Last Tuesday i'm there again, chat chat chat. One of my friends drips wax on her hand and it comes out that she doesn't have any feeling in her hands, looked at her hands, her left hand, her ringfinger has a ring on, ask if shes engaged, she replies yes, ask how long, she replies that since a month back (the weekend after I first called her). Promptly ask the her to fetch us some tequila and toasted on her good fortune, put on the "Nothings-wrong-Im-the
happiest-bastard-here" act, drink alot more, enough for me to lose self control (not falling over or slurring-speech) and I tell her that I have liked her since the first time I saw her (17 February, 19-21:00) shes still working so she
away from the table comes back and i notice her eyeshadows is a tad smudged.
I go home later weeping and cursing, the whole week im a total mess, can't sleep for more than 2-3 hours, I'm a bit better now, could actually sleep last night thanks to some pills.
I don't want to see her again, but if I close my eyes there she is staring back, and if I see her again I'm going to fall apart all over again.
I don't know what to do, do I move to a differant city, country? do i try to break up a relationship that has gone on this long for a chance of karma biting us on the ass?
i REALLY need some advice. (link)
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Well, you shouldn't try to break up their relationship... If you did, and it worked the guy she's with now would probably feel even worse than you do now. Which would probably make her feel shitty too, and then you probably still wouldn't be happy.
Try going to different bars since she works there. You're going to feel crappy like this for awhile but get together with some of your friends and go out to a new bar and try to have some fun. You can probably find a new girl to talk to there that isn't already in a relationship.
I'm sorry I couldn't have helped more... You should try to go out and have some fun... You can find someone better than her. It probably doesn't seem like there's anyone better than her, but think about it... She let you go on thinking than she was single and that maybe something could happen with you two. Maybe she did it because she did like you, but that still isn't fair to you...
I hope things get better for you..
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you right, i wouldn't be able to trust her if i was able to break it up anyway.
thanks
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