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well this might be long but i need some help..this girl and me hated each other because of a boy,(wont get into it itd be to long haha) but found out he was playing both of us and we became really good friends because we started talking to each other and found out we were a lot alike. over the summer id find myself being ditched a lot. like the last day of school, we were going to hang out but i found out she was hanging out with one of her best friends that hates me for no reason and i have no problem with her, but i forgave her.. and then over and over we would make plans and then she would ditch me again for this girl! it really pissed me off and i confronted her about it and she would make up these excuses that ohh she just came over because they live by each other.
she got a new boyfriend and said she didnt like the guy any more.. and the guy and i ended up hanging out at the same place and ended up doing stuff, a couple days after i found out she still liked him and was only going out with the guy to make him jealous.. so i felt bad and all but i told her and she was glad i told her and didnt act all that mad because i mean she was the one who said she didnt like him any more.. but we were going to hang out the next day and she didnt pick up her phone, and was super pissed but i understood why she would have been mad.. ANYWAYS i wrote her a sorry note and everything we were good and then she does it AGAIN she was just like oh i have a friend over sorry even though we planned the time and everyhting that i would have came over. it was bitch so i didnt talk to her after a while she apologized and said she just wanted to get back at me but she shouldnt have said she was fine when she really wasnt. she promised shed make it up to me somehow and she did because we hung out a lot after that. and everything was fine. her and her friend got in a big fight.. so wed hang out a lot more becuase her other friend wasnt there. then, i would call her because we were going to hang out but she ended up having to take care of her brothers so i was stuck again for the night... and that day i was the only one to call her and she wouldnt call me back and tell me what was going on... so for about a week i didnt talk to her, but then i called her and left a message wanting to talk to her and see wat her deal is.. and she didnt return my call at all... so i called her a couple days later and she picked up and i was straight up asking why she didnt return my calls and wouldnt call me and she was like i didnt get the message or any of your calls and i didnt call you because i thought you were mad at me.. so we talked and she had to go and told me to call her that night so i did and she said her mom was up and shed call me back but she never did and didnt today either! its like after all that youd think she would at least call..i dont know if i should believe her or not and still be her friend, when were together we have so much fun and stuff but its just im always getting ditched and not treated right.. its like shes taking advantage of me. sorry again it was so long but thanks to all if you read it :-(

p.s her and her friend are now cool again, so im thinking i was just used sortof cuz her other friend wasnt there

15/f

by where i live theres a whole bunch of people like that and im good friends with one and i see things like this happen all the time..you cant really trust people like your 'friend' because of everything that happened so i would say try and find new friends but just to see dont call her for awhile see if she calls you at all...if she does thats nice and if she doesnt dont take crap like that from anyone
good luck!!*
-kara

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(Rating: 5) thank you.. do you by any chance live in michigan lol cuz that happens a lot here.. i really hope it works out

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