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Q: Hey.
Alrighty my boyfriend and I are constantly fighting over the stupidest things such as whos right and whos wrong. He hates Green Day but i LOVE them and when i got my ticket for the concert he got pissed at me. But i KNOW he loves me and i love him so much i dont wanna lose this. Our 3 month "anniversary" is in 11 days and im so happy with the relationship. But i think his trust issue is getting in the way. And i dont mean for that to sound mean cuz im not TRYING to be. But i NEED him to know he can trust me. Hes accused me of cheating on him with my ex who now lives in germany then felt SOO bad for doing it. He has had a rough time growing up and feels like he cant trust many people. What can i do to help him know he can trust me...with ANYTHING?
Thanks for any and ALL advice!!
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-*-Hanny-*-

P.S. SOrry its so long.=/

Well when you guys fight its only meaning that your learning what irritaes the other person so its kinda a learning exeriance if you know what i mean. this way youll know what not to bring up or talk about. and about the whole trust thing, well talk to him and tell him that you love him and have been with him for 3 months and would never even dream about cheating. its just wrong and he was wrong the last time he accused you. just remind him how you felt when you were accused and how bad he felt for doing it. dont rub it in his face to much though cuz that might just tick him off. also make sure to tell him your sorry about his past but it is the past and nothing can be done about it now. hakuna matata! good luck!

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