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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me. (link)
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First off i give you props on waiting so long 2 do it..everybody scared their frist time..yes its most likely gonna hurt the first time beacuse your vagina is still tight from having nothing in it so it hurts when he stretches your skin and it will hurt when he pops your cherry which will cause a tiny bit of blood nothing big...dotn worry it's not unbearable pain! Ofcourse you are not gonna have pain when you pee fro 2 weeks..its rare but its possibel for it to hurt the first time you pee right after you lose your virginity but honestly i think you're mother used that as an excuse for why you shoudn't have sex! lol! well hope i helped..x0x *caitie*
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Thank you. i think im gonna have a talk with my mother...
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