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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.

dont be scared of it! i mean its natural so just relax. yes its true it will hurt a little becuase you are so tight being a virgin and all because nothing has been up your vagina so when he does penitrate you and you skin streatches then it will feel a little uncomfortable but this will only be for the first few times. this feeling may last a few days but it is nothing bad. and you may bleed a little,some people do and some dont. this is just because you hymen has been broken but this is nothing to worry about either. the worst case is tht you will spot for a few days.
the first time you pee after you've had sex for the first time it may hurt a little its just feels more uncomfortable than actual pain itself. and no it wont last for weeks!
by the way congratulations on the wedding and i think its really good you've both decided to wait until you were married!
remember relax! its natural! the more tense you are, the tighter you are and the more it will hurt!
hope i helped!

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