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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!
Wow alright, first of all.. you need to be able to trust you boyfriend, but most importantly a BEST FRiiEND. Trust is key in relationships. And if you cant trust either of them.. then thats a problem to begin with. But sometimes jealousy causes us to by iffy about our trust with people. So if i were you i'd talk to you're boyfriend && best friend.. and let them know that you dont mind if they talk, and hang out, but you'd prefer them to hang out if you were there too. Admit that you get jealous, that way they know that it bothers you. If they continue to hang out alone, they have no respect for you're feelings and they should be dropped.
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Thats a good idea too! thanks a lot !
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