Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME!
aww.. wow, sounds like a toughy.. here's my advice. Not to be harsh, but to "ditch" her without calling was you only mistake here. Im sure if you would have called her, and explained to her what was going on, and if she was a real friend she would have understood. But thats the past, and you cant redu it. Sooo, if i were you, i'd write her a message or something if you feel more comfortable then on the phone or in person. Let her know that she does mean a lot to you, and that you felt bad calling her and telling her where you were, so you didnt, and that you kind of wanted to be alone with this boy, and it was SOO last min. Then tell her you will make it up to her with a girls night
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Thanks so much!! =)
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