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Member Since: July 17, 2005
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Last Update: July 19, 2005
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Hey its me again.... I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too


OK... if i do decide to tell him how i feel i have an idea and im wondering if its a good idea or not....
i wont be seeing him for two weeks coming up should i have my friend on the last day before the 2 weeks go up to him and be like i think *my name* likes you but i dont know.... then he can think about it or w/e??

Definatley a tuffy, and i think all of us like our best friends at one point or another. I know i have. And i was in the same spot you were, do i tell him and risk loosing the relationship or just let it go unknown. Also the fear of feeling weird around eachother also comes into consideration. Well here, its a win win & a loose loose situation no matter which you choose. If you choose to tell him, you could win by him liking you back, but you could loose by finding out he doesnt like you in that way, and having to deal with feeling weird. But if you dont tell him, then you will have to deal with the never knowing how he feels, and the positive would be you will always act the same. But i went for it && told my best friend and he ended up havings ome feelings there too. Its kinda fun, because you already know sooo much about eachother && a lot of the best relationships start out with friendships. You dont wanna regret not telling him !

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