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Member Since: July 13, 2005
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Last Update: January 4, 2006
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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!

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Hey.sup? Wow I really don't think that yu should fool around w. anyone without a condom> Its really not safe~ If I were you I would def. have taken the day after pill(which you can get @ any Plan Parenthood) the day right after you have sex. It's a little too late now so just incase maybe you should schedule an appointement @ your local gnecologists office for a *check up*. Definently Pee on the Strip today/tom and see what is says. If it turns out "positive" than thats a matter of if you want the child or not..but if its "negetive" than you could release a sigh of relief. I would still go to the gyno. though just for a check up to see if you contracted any diseases. Even though you've been w. your bf for a long time you never know what kind of diseases he had before he met you. Good luck w. everything and I hope it turns out ok. Xo


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it was both of our first times, neither of us had a disease..i know it's not safe




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