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I'm 16 and I have recently gotten mixed up in the dating scene again. I've been staying single for a few months to try and sort out my priorities so that the next time I decide to start dating again I will end up with a guy that will treat me right. Well that day has come but its certainly not as easy as I thought it would be thats for sure! One guy I've known since I was a little kid, my mom knows his parents and she likes the idea of me dating him. Plus we've liked eachother for over two years and have both are single now. We've talked on the phone alot and hung out almost every other day. We've kissed and we have so much in common and he is really sweet. But some things about him I'm unsure of. I don't trust him that easily because some things he says seem like lines and he hasn't ever brought up the subject of us dating or anything so I'm not sure if he just wants to mess around, cuz I'm not up for that. The other guy I've met a few days ago. He just recently moved here and the minute our eyes met we clicked. We have alot of things in common, his parents already met me and love me, my mom knows about him and is willing to give him a chance, and we've already talked of dating and he's all up for it and so now it is my desicion. And there lies the problem. I like both guys and I have major chemistry with both. My mom wouldn't mind me dating either and now I'm stuck in a tricky situation. The first guy is from my school and I really want to give him a chance cuz I like him and if I turn him down and date the other guy he might feel played. And visa versa. Please help me. My heart is torn between these two guys and I have no idea which way to go!
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hey.sup? Well I honestly do think that you've been put into a really tricky situation. I think that instead of waiting for the 1st guy to bring up the dating topic maybe you should ask him if he's looking 4 a serious relationship.If he replies with a no, than you don't need the 1st guy anyway. If he says he wants a serious relationship than you should debate which 1 you want to date. Honestly since they both seem like they have good personalities I would go on looks next/ which 1 looks better?? because even though you might tell yourself that looks don't matter you know that deep down inside they do~ The 1st guy seems like he has the benefit of the doubt because you've known him 4 4ever and he attends your school so its easy access to see eachother. Than again the 2nd guy seems more interesting because you don't know anything about him so you guys can spend a lot of time *getting to know eachother* lol. Know that you know what I think its up 2 u to decide..goodluck xo.
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Hey! I took your advice and it has really helped. In the end I have decided to "get to know" the second guy lol. And it was the right desicion. I asked the first guy if he was looking for a serious relationship and he said he sort of is, but he just has to make sure it's with the right girl. So that made my desicion kind of hard because that was exactly how I was feeling. And in the end I'm glad I picked the second guy, because the first guy had WAY too many skeletons in his closet and I didn't want to deal with that bull shit.
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