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Q: Okay so i`m 17 and i was goin out with this 20 yr old boy for about 7 months..but we've been hookin up for almost a year. Then he cheated on me with his ex. so we seperated. Lets pretend this boys name is Bob. So while me and bob were broken up, we still talked and hooked up every once in a while. but not much. So i had a lot of free time for once. Durin the free time i met this other 20 yr old boy. he was so sweet and everything. so we started talkin. We`ll call this boy Joe. So later on, i come to find out that Bob and Joe are like worst enemies. they`ve been beefin` with eachother for YEARS! So then they find out about eachother, which isnt that big of a deal bc im not goin out with either one. but still they were mad and wanted to fight eachother. so Joe got locked up almost 2 weeks ago. And everyone wants me to help get him out. But i currently go out with Bob again, so he doesnt want me to. I mean some times i think i love bob, but i find myself constantly thinkin about Joe. and i miss him a lot. I dont know who would be a better choice for me? and i dont wanna make the wrong one.. I really need help. I dont wanna be lyin to them, so i just want one... plzzzz help .. thanxx
wow... you are in a difficult position. So did this guy get locked up from fighting for you? If you are stuck in the middle of their games and they want to fight eachother this might result in violence. So I think bob should go because he has cheated on you before and he won't even let you have interaction with Joe. So bob seems to me like he is untrustworthy. And you find yourself thinking about Joe all of the time which in my opinion means you are over Bob. So joe. Good Luck hope i helped.

heyy thanx for the advice, but no he didnt get locked up for fightin over me. He was got in trouble like 3 months ago b4 i met him. But thanx.. i think ur right

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