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ive been talking to this guy for 5 yrs. but weve never been together and he lives in flordia right now. Well he just asked me to marry him,i really love him....but i don't want to get married, ive never wanted to get married. I don't know what to say.

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-twiSTed

if you love him enough, you will want to say YES YES YES YES YES!!!... but you sound unsure, and that never turns out best, so I would wait and just tell him you aren't ready for that kind of a commitment and ask him to wait for you.

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