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WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do
PLEASE HELP!!
~Princess Ava~ (link)
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To put it bluntly: No, you shouldn't marry him.
Most marriages that begin at your age fail, and unpleasently so.
Children born to women who marry at your age are much more likely than normal to do poorly in school, and are more likely than normal to get into trouble with the law.
This has nothing to do with the individuals themselves; many teenagers who get married are good people. The problem is that they are not intellectually or emotionally mature enough to bare the burden of child rearing and lifelong commitment.
Your boyfriend clearly isn't ready. A responsible adult does not get himself drunk senseless, nor does he allow himself to cheat on the woman he plans to propose to.
Do the right thing. Stay single, get an education, and get a job. If you and your boyfriend are still in love when you're thirty, then i say, go for it.
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