Hey Everyone It Is Irishdude405
I am A very Understanding person that likes to listen to your thought and i can relate to many of you hear because I've been through many Situations that you may be going through. I'm not to into sports but i love being active. I dont Have a girlfriend at the current moment. I am Attending Highschool Next year and im Hopefully going to go to college raise a family and be a writer. Now Dont hesitate asking me a question They Will be Answered and They will have Advice for every specific Need!
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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."
I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.
Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.
Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.
Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.
I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
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The best way to get over a guy is getting to know and hanging out with other guys. You want to stay away from him by doing other things so your not thinking about him all the time. I hope things turn out alright.
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Irishdude405
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As much as I hate to admit it, you're totally right. Further, you actually read what I wrote, and didn't assume I asked the same question as everyone else. Thanks.
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