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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."
I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.
Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.
Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.
Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.
I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway?
(A)well i guess you could just try 2 move on & get another bf because you dont wanna be with any one who will make you unconfortable or make you do sumthing you dont want 2 soooo just try to move on but still be friends (B) you could tell him how you feel & see what happens (C) just pretend you dont like him anymore & cry in private , & become a lonely old lady with 20 something cats OPTION C WAS A JOKE !!!!
but i really dont know what else 2 say good luck x3
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JaDa*
(Rating: 5) This is actually pretty thorough, quality advice, and even the joke option makes a good point. Thanks for your attention, and thank you for actually reading what I wrote.