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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.

Why do you love Zach so much? If he loved you that much back, then he would already have been over Alli. Elijah, I think, is a better decision. If he loves you enough to wait, then he really deserves you. But then again, there might be something to Zach that I don't know, and he might be better. With the info you gave me, i think you should take Elijah.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your imput. I did forget to mention things about Zach. Like how he's like my best friend and that's why I fell for him. He's the only guy to ever see me cry. And I'm like his best friend to. He doesn't mind letting me see him cry either. And he told me I hold a special place in his heart. But I'm sorry I left those out.
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