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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.
hmm i think you should go with elijah...zach is like waiting for Alli and when he finally realizes that he cant have her then hes gonna turn to you?! thats kinda wrong...elijah seems sweet and all for waiting for you that shows that he really cares about you and hes not like waiting for someone else then after that hes gonna turn back to you...id be offended if i were you but w/e you think about that then alright...give elijah a chance if zach falls for you while youre with him then thats not your fault you waited for zach and he even let you get with elijah so yeah...hope i helped ya out! and good lucK!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your imput. And Elijah is to me what I am to Zach so its a bit more complicated. But I will take your words to heart. Thank you so much.