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Q: ALRIGHT PEOPLE! I need your help! Alright well there is this guy and I think I have a crush on him! butt.. he is like a really horny person.. and like if i ever did go out with him (which I doubt) im afraid hed use me! But i think itd be fun to go out with him! and I have a crush on him.. and hes funny and everything! but I dont want him just to use me for stuff.. and I already told him if I do anything sexual with anyone they are gona be my boyfriend.. what if some how we do end up goin out.. how do I know he isnt using me? But also how do I make him like me for me and not just for sexual stuff!!
Most teenage guys are horny, just a lot know how to hide it around girls..lol. I doubt, though, he'd get into a relationship just to use you. Most people don't bother with that effort, as they can get sex from elsewhere if they really want it. I guess you can't ever know someone's intentions, but he does deserve the benefit of the doubt, doesn't he? Unless there's a logical reason, assume that he really does like you and is not using you. You have no reason not to trust him.

Try getting one of your/his friends to ask what he thinks of you, and see how he answers. That'll give you a clear indication on where you stand with him, and whether he sees you as more than just a "peice of ass" (so to speak!)

Good luck!

THanks :-D

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