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hi! i am seth i am really confuzed with myself right now.i want to be straight again ireally dont understand myself right now i have recently had a boi friend and dated a girl afterwards that tried to help me become straight because she thought that she could. hahahahahahahahaha and now I STILL LIKE GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont kno why i want to get over it and start likeing girls again i dont kno how. i kno that it is against gods word and i want to go to heaven when i die, and i want to make my family happy. they dont exactly kno about me but i cant say that i havent thought about telling them. they think i am the highlight of their life they think i am lil mr perfect cuz i make straight a's and all that #@*% but there are many things i hide from them that r not good. i hope that some one can help me understand myself and try to help me become straight or watever i am........ thanks alot !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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This is a very tough problem. It sounds like you really really want to be straight, but when you try it doesn't work. It probably doesn't work because you aren't straight and maybe that's the way it was meant to be. I know that this isn't the answer you want to hear, but it sounds like there is nothing you can do about this. You just have to accept yourself for who you are and be proud of it. The worst thing you can do is be ashamed of yourself for liking guys. I know that you wanted me to come up with some answer to help you to not be gay, but the thing is... i can't tell you how to like girls. You like guys and that's the way it is and nothing will change that. As for your parents... they love you and I'm sure that they will support you whether you are gay or straight. At first, it may be a shock to them and it may be hard for them to accept, but they still love you and being gay isn't going to change that. So accept yourself for who you are and don't try to change just to please other people. Stay confident and stay true to who you are, because you are an incredible person.
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