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Q: I have a problem of course.

So i went on to MSN Messenger to chat with my girlfriend and then i Find her friend there and we start talking and so She askes if i want to know anything about her(because my girlfriend is all seritive) and she said she knew alot so i asked stuff i was unsure abou(wed only been going out for 3 months) like her gift favs and what movies she likes.and then i asked a stupid question of wheather she was a virgin or not (because shes all shallow acting and like dark so)and she awnser. then my GF found out and was all mad(i didnt like push for the awnsers if she had said she thinks its too privite cause i didnt then i wouldnt have asked more) so then shes all like "you are a jerk to ask that and invade my privicy" and im thinking "what?" so now weve broken up and im all depressed and stuff cause i dont want to be over and i think its stupid to fight over this now she wont even talk to me so i can apologize.I want to apologize even if we are through and she wants me dead i just want to know if anyone else thinks i invaded or asked something too personal and what i can to to at least make us not hating each other if we cant be friends again.

Solemnstar
PS shes on her period so it might be that

Jeez, melodramatic much? She's acting like a drama queen. She should know that obviously guys are going to be curious about that kind of thing.
If you ask me, it sounds like she's not ready for a relationship. Trust is a very important part of an relationship, and so she shouldn't be secretive about things. You shouldn't have to hide things from your boyfriend/girlfriend.

If I were you I'd forget about getting back together with her, but if you really feel you want to apologize, try writing her a note or buying her something. It's your choice.

Good luck.