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Q: i really like this guy dylan, but i dont think he likes me. all of my friends say he does, but i dont really feel like he does. he doesnt call me or im me and that is making me feel depressed. i need help, cause i really want him to like him. what can i do to make him like me again? oh, and by the way, i am throwing a party and inviting him...what should i do there to get his attention?....thanks in advance!
Sometimes you've got to meet people half way. You can't always wait for him to talk to you and call you. You can't force him to like you, no matter what you do, so don't try and change yourself just to impress him (that includes trying to get his attention. Guys can be turned off by that) Friends tend to pick up on the signs a guy likes us more than we do, so maybe you should trust your friend son this one.

But for now I think you should just start talking to him more and getting close to him. I assume you have him on IM which is an easier way to get to know people without dealing with awkwardness. As for your party, why not have an 'innocent' little game of spin the bottle (or something similiar to that) lol. And use your party as an opportunity to do some flirting and see if he does it back.

Good luck.

thanks! you helped me a lot! i sure hope that "innocent" game helps! hehehe

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