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Im 18 years old.I love giving advice to people.I try the best i can. Im going to be having a baby very soon.I love spending time with my friends and chatting online.Also writting in online journals, going to the library and spending time with my boyfriend and family. Also enjoy fishing and going to my lil bros baseball games , and going to the movies

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okay, so ever since i came to my school, in second grade, this girl, we'll call her "teresa" has been my best friend. we could like write a book about eachother. sometimes i think she noes me better than i noe myself. haha! but, the thing is that ther were a whole bunch of new kids this year. one of them we'll call "melanie" and the other we'll call "claire". when melanie came into school, teresita was being her friendly self and started greeting all of the new kids and introducing herself etc, etc. so her and melanie supposedly become really close. oh, she can have a friend! but i couldnt make friends w/ another one of the new kids, which is claire. so, teresa, knowing that melanie calls me a bitch and kinda bullies me around. i mean, my gosh, she's a real bitch! but i mean, gosh, sumtimes i dont think i realize how much shit i take in from a lot people. im too nice to those those people. but thats just the way i am. the only way i can really blow my top is by writing here. i hardly ever get this way w/ people cuz im too shy to tell them off. but i put my foot down. im not taking crap from those people anymore! so, i tell teresa, right? i tell her that i'm sorry. but i cant be friends w/ sum1 thats friends w/ her b/c she is a serious bully. i mean, we've even had to talk 2 the principal about it b/c the girl is out of control! she thinks that she's hot stuff, and shes not even close to it! and its silly, at my age, it really is. im 14 yrs old and i just think that its really silly that i hav 2 talk 2 the principal @ this stage! but, the thing is that the school has its own network and its like my school e-mail. and she's sending horrible e-mails during school hours! so... yeah. it had to "be brought to the attention of authority" haha! anyways. and she IM's me such mean things, that i had to block her! and teresa is like nothing. hanging out w/ her, laughing. and everyone is accusing me of ditching her and hanging out w/ claire. just b/c teresa decides to go w/ a girl that cant stand my guts. i dont know how to explain this to her! people even told me that i had to choose between them and claire b/c they dont like claire. but u noe, its really stupid. b/c sum1 that i thot was a true friend, look wat she did to me, and this girl is just sum1 to hang out w/ since my friend ditched me! its like she's on her side. thats so unfair! i've always been ther for her! why duz she like melanie so much if she's that way w/ me? its really just annoying. please let me know what you think. i rate high!

I must say that this sounds liek something i've went through before. But your friends are going to have friends you dont like and you are going to have friends your friends dont like. they need to choose am i going to not be her friend just because shes friends with this other person. Although i think if a good friend is letting someone bully you around thats not right. Real friends would atleast say ease up on her dont be so mean . Im sure if she got to know you she'd like you.Most girls who are bullys and say mean things to you are jealous of you and want to be like you or would want to be your friend , but there way of acting as if there better then u when infact there the ones who are the loser. They act like there the sh*t.I think you need to talk to your friend , and then tell all your friends to accept the friend you have because shes been the only good friend to you at this point. You shouldnt have to choose your friends because other friends dont like um. Im sorry but that is childish and its sad when the principle has to get involed. tell them they need to grow up . if the principle isnt doing anything , you can go to the cops for harassment , i've done it before and get a restraining order put agianst the girl. That way she cant talk to you , and if she does she'll get arrested and sadly sometimes it has to lead to that because teenage girls are dumb sometimes. Your not doing anything wrong. Just keep your head high and know you better then that .

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much! uve been a great help! =)
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