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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
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Ok, first off, you need to stop being a wussy. I don't mean that in a bad way, but you need to get over your nervousness, thats only gonna get in the way of what you want to do. Don't send her the card, hand deliver it. Secondly, don't be afraid to call her. She's really upset right now but that means you should call even more. You need to call her and make sure she's ok. You need to show her that you love her and that you understand what a hard time she's going through. If you're going through a hard time yourself then it shows that you care even more. You'd drop your own problems to ask her about hers and just listen. I understand you yourself are going through some rough times, but now you need to pull through even more. She needs someone that help her through this. That you live 45 minutes away is bull. I'm sorry but I lived 2 hours away from my girlfriend (now ex) and we still made it work. Sorry for the length and I hope this helps.
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