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Yeah, so my guy and I have been together for almost 20 months, and he proposed awhile back.
The thing is, about a month ago we had a big fight over something INCREDIBLY stupid and almost broke up before realizing that it was completely fixable, and that we'd both be miserable without each other. So really, we never broke up...but I want to know if we're still engaged. It's getting close to a year since he proposed. Should I just randomly do something like "You remember what you asked me a year ago today?"
I mean, he still talks about our relationship as if it'll never end, so I think he still feels the same way. I know he still loves me (if anything, he seems to love me more, and I love him)
So...how do I go about bringing this up?
Being engaged to someone should mean that both are willing to get married. For that to be a good relationship .. there needs to be honesty and communication and to love eachother. and if your not sure wheather your engaged, or if you feel not right asking your fiance' if you are engaged or what.. then this isnt the best decision ever.
now dont take this the wrong way. im not saying that you wont end up together in eachothers arms married but maybe you should give it more time to see if u become more comfortable opening up to eachother. the best thing i can say is to talk to him, it sounds like you both really care deeply for eachother, and im sure you will be fine. i wish you the best of the luck!
(Rating: 5) Thanks. We are open with each other. I just don't want him to take it to mean I want to rush into it when I don't. I just want to make sure we still think of the relationship the same way. =)