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i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate.
bring her into the conversations pay attension to her and rosie..dont leave her out and only dont look at rosie if your haveing a funny intersesting conversation.Like i said bring mary into it to. Compliment mary and say shes cool and you like what she was wearing. Laugh and be funny around her. Soon she'll be extremly comfortable!! Also have you rosie her and some other people make plans! but dont make her look like the least favorite one because that really hurts when people think you dont care about them [[for both sides]]. I'm sure she'll feel a lot comfortable around you ! good luck !! Just be outgoing and stuff and she'll click into it!
(Rating: 3) thanks for the advice, but ive tried for a year to reach out to her and it doesnt work...ill keep trying.