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Well, my sister is 16, and she's pregnant by her 20 year old boyfriend. I want to help her, I really do. She is about to turn 17 next month and she wants to move in with him. However, my mom told me that she wasn't going to let her and not to tell her that because she would get upset. So, I don't wanna upset her about it, so I am keeping my mouth shut.
I try to help her the best I can. If she wants something to drink, I'll get her something to drink, if she wants something to eat, I'll get her something to eat. However, it seems like whatever I do isn't good enough. She always complains that its too hot, or too cold, or she doesn't like it. She has the biggest mood swings ever. She cries constantly; when she's not crying she's screaming.
I just want to help her out so much. She's young and we have birth defect problems in our family. I want her pregnancy to go well. I just don't know how to help.
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I know how you feel, my sister was pregnan at 17 but the difference being her boyfriend ran off when he found out she was pregnant so she was left with me while my parents worked and no matter how much I tryed to make things right for her she cryed and screamed and cryed some more.
It's absolutely natural for her to cry or scream and have mood swings, her hormones are going haywire which is normal.
You should try and talk to her sit her down when you're both alone (and when she seems like she's in a good mood QUICK! while it lasts, lmao) and let her know that even if sometimes she might feel like she hates you because of her mood swings that that's okay and you understand and let her know that you're there for her if she ever needs you.
Once you get her trust (if my plan works that is) you should see if she'll live at home for a while, that way your parents and you can help out with the baby.
If you have room in your house and if you think it's a good idea you should suggest to both your mom and your sister that her boyfriend moves in untill things are settled and they both have enough money to move out, because babies are expensive!
(if you're going to do that, ask your mom before you ask your sister, your sister might agree and get her hopes up and then your mom might disagree so to avoid getting her hopes up and then letting her down, don't let her know untill and if your mom agrees)
Like I said, you just need to let your sister know you're there for her.
When my sister gave birth she told me that all the time she was pregnant and having mood swings, all she wanted was to know she could trust someone and that someone would be there for her no matter what.
So you should give it a go.
Good luck :) and congrats on becoming a future auntie!
♥Em
(Rating: 5) Thanks!! That really made sense. Only we don't have room at our house. We live in a small trailer and my mom smokes so it's filled with smoke. I don't think it's a good enviornment for a baby at all!!